Donald Clarke reflects on Jimmy Kimmel’s recent visit to Ireland, noting that while the TV host was polite in his praise, Kimmel may have misunderstood some aspects of Irish hospitality.
About four thousand years ago, Clarke visited New York City on a J1 visa. Early on, he tried to find work in a familiar field but had to first talk to the union representing that workforce. The union representative was extremely helpful, offering advice, alternative job leads, and many useful contacts. She remarked:
“You came all this way without a job? Let’s see what we can do.”
After half an hour, she reassured Clarke about New Yorkers’ manners:
“Now, don’t let anyone tell you New Yorkers are rude.”
Clarke had not considered New Yorkers rude; while sometimes brusque, they were no less polite than those in other large cities. This memory stayed with him while watching Kimmel’s comments about Ireland.
Kimmel mentioned leprechauns early in his trip narrative, but mainly praised Ireland for its decency, friendliness, and political maturity. However, Clarke argues Irish people are no more polite or generous than people back in Kimmel’s home country.
This comparison shows that politeness and generosity are not unique to any one nation but common human traits, often shaped by personal experience.
While Kimmel was courteous about Ireland, his view simplifies a complex reality shared by many societies.
Author’s summary: Clarke highlights that kindness and politeness are universal rather than uniquely Irish, drawing from personal experience to challenge idealized views of cultural manners.