Who's gonna make the gravy now? We ask master storyteller Paul Kelly
It all began with a funeral notice published on page 33 of The Age newspaper on August 11, 2025:
"With great sorrow, we announce the death of Joe by sudden misadventure. Much-loved father, husband, brother, brother-in-law and uncle to Dan, Rita, Stella, Roger, Mary, Angus, Frank and Dolly."
"You loved life and went hard at it. You loved music, food, football, celebration, tall tales and strong argument. We can still see you cooking up a storm in the kitchen at our big family gatherings, pots and pans on the go, BBQ smoking outside, glass of wine in hand, your beloved reggae music on the stereo, Junior Murvin, Linton Kwesi Johnson, Gregory Isaac and the like. You filling up everybody's drinks and teasing the little ones."
"Christmas just won't be the same this year without you. But we know you'll always be with us, hovering above us, floating all around us, making sure we get it right."
"The funeral and service will be on August 14th. Followed by a wake to end all wakes! Further details to follow."
We first met Joe in 1996 when he wrote a letter to his brother Dan from prison on December 21, fearful of losing his wife Rita and children, and anxious that no one would know how to make gravy for Christmas. This letter became the lyrics for Paul Kelly’s iconic song, How To Make Gravy.
On August 15, 2025, Paul Kelly released Rita Wrote A Letter, the highly anticipated sequel continuing Joe’s story from Rita’s perspective.
Legacy of Joe and the Music
- Joe was celebrated for his love of life, music, and family.
- He was known for his reggae music taste, including artists like Junior Murvin and Linton Kwesi Johnson.
- His story and letters have inspired songs that capture deep family emotions around Christmas.
Paul Kelly’s storytelling vividly brings to life the warmth and challenges of family bonds through Joe and Rita’s voices.
Author’s summary: Paul Kelly continues his storytelling legacy by transforming Joe’s heartfelt letter and funeral notice into poignant songs that celebrate family, memory, and love.